Embracing your sexuality

Published on 22 February 2022 at 22:22

Numb… That’s the best way to describe it. Numb and stuck in life are the two best descriptions  to how it felt, before the feeling of wanting to break free presented itself. Break free from what precisely was still not identified, yet feeling free could never feel this way. A pure hunger lingered, yet food is not what was yearned for. A pure hunger for life kept lingering, yet not knowing how to obtain it……

That yearning lingered for days, months even years. Seeking thrills  only gave a temporary adrenaline rush. Wanting to immortalize that vitality and pleasure, for a few moments would always leave a taste of dissatisfaction. The journey continued and led straight to the womb of a female or the hara of a male. Located in every human being the sacral chakra: the powerhouse of emotions, sensuality and creativity. It’s energy is characterized by the element of water and is represented by flow and flexibility.

A lifetime of Netflix and chill, toxic relationships, dating apps and living in a world that suppresses sexual intimacy and desires, yet capitalizes heavily of this same suppression of sexual energy, has left most of this world populations sexually frustrated, emotionally depleted, energetically exhausted, scattered and numb on the inside. For a lifetime of being told what you felt naturally is “bad”, you learned how to hide and be ashamed of the very thing that could set you free. Sometimes your whole life will crash and burn to finally get you to the point that it might be time to do things differently and on your own terms.

Are you ready to live a life you love, filled with passion, vitality and happiness? It’s time to rebalance your sacral chakra!

The sacral chakra is associated with the following psychological and behavioral functions:

  • Emotions and feelings
  • Relationships / relating
  • Expression of sexuality & sensual pleasure
  • Feeling the outer and inner worlds
  • Creativity
  • Fantasies


The sacral chakra is associated with our emotions. It’s the center of our feelings and sensations. It’s particularly active in our sexuality and expression of our sensual and sexual desires.

In a hyper sexualized world, it seems that the great majority of people are trying to obtain love by the misconceptions that sex equals intimacy. Yet reconnecting the intimacy with oneself will help amplify the love within you and you will no longer have to chase the love you seek, you will effortlessly attract it towards you. Take back you power, take back your innocence!


Signs of an Sacral chakra imbalance

Signs may include:

  • Not being able to cope with the ups and downs of life
  • Unable to relate to other people and the world around you
  • Emotionally unstable
  • Experiencing uncertainty, insecurity
  • Feeling detached from your surroundings
  • Lack of self-esteem &self-worth that contribute to finding one’s self in unhealthy, abusive relationships.
  • Hair loss, unstable weight, infertility.


Healing the Sacral Chakra

There are different ways to healing and rebalancing the sacral chakra. Water is the element of this chakra, drinking at least 1,5 liters of water or more a day will help clear all blockages from this area. Flow and flexibility are the characters that help rebalance this chakra, activities such as exercise, yoga, dancing, kick-boxing, painting, cooking, (anything that helps you use your creative energy to create something also works wonders).

Doing shadow work is a form to help you understand how you got to the place you are now. By understanding how you got here in the first place, helps you to learn from your past experiences and helps you to not revisit this place again. Even if you revisited it will be on your own terms.


Shadow work to heal the Sacral Chakra

The following questions will help you understand you sensuality better:

  • How do you feel about your sexuality in this moment?
  • What is the ideal form in which you want to express yourself?
  • What do you need to achieve this?
  • How does intimacy look and feel to you?
  • In an ideal situation how do you receive and give intimacy?
  • What do you need to achieve this ideal form of intimacy & love?


Keep healing!  For it is brave of you to be here in this space and place of vulnerability! There will be times that you feel that you are falling apart, in those moments remind yourself “ you are breaking through, keep going”. Your greatest version of yourself is in your reach!


Happy Healings,


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